Festive Faux Pas: A Career Coach’s Etiquette Guide to the Work Christmas Party
There’s no shortage of information advising you to be on your best behaviour at festive gatherings, yet many still find themselves the subject of colleagues’ jokes the next day. There’s something about holiday parties that seems to make people abandon the rules and let loose – often with regrettable consequences.
Having witnessed her fair share of questionable holiday antics, Certified Professional Career Coach (CPCC) Amanda Augustine at TopCV has learned some important lessons along the way.
The key takeaway? There’s never an excuse to behave poorly at a workplace event – festive season or not. Missteps at these gatherings can damage your personal brand and potentially derail your career progression.
Even if you’re counting down the days until bonuses are handed out so you can hand in your notice, don’t burn bridges. Those connections could one day provide recommendations, references, or even job leads. Nobody wants to vouch for the colleague who ends up in a meeting with HR the morning after the holiday do. Follow these four tips from Amanda Augustine to avoid festive blunders at your company party:
1. The early bird makes the best impression
Arrive on time and dedicate the first part of the event to mingling with your boss and their peers. It’s wise to get your face time in early, before the drinks start flowing or the dance floor heats up. Remember, these events are excellent opportunities to enhance your personal brand and network with colleagues you might not interact with regularly.
2. Fuel up at the buffet
If alcoholic beverages will be served, it’s important to have a plan. Start by visiting the buffet early to avoid having a liquid-only meal. If you’re unsure about the catering, eat beforehand or bring a small snack. Protein bars are a discreet and practical option, as they can fit into a pocket or small bag while providing a satisfying boost.
3. Follow the two-drink rule
If you choose to indulge, limit yourself to two alcoholic beverages and alternate with water. Ordering a soda water with lime later in the evening can keep your hands occupied and help you avoid overindulging.
4. Have a backup plan
Bring along a trusted colleague or your date to help keep things in check. Save the contact details for a taxi or ride-hailing service in your phone to ensure you – or a colleague – have a safe way to get home if needed.
Everyone enjoys a good time at workplace events, but it’s crucial to respect the boundaries of professionalism. At these gatherings, you represent not only yourself but also your company’s brand. By following these tips, you can safeguard your reputation and keep your career moving in the right direction.